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Rewiring the Inner Dialogue: How CBT Helps You Break Free from Negative Thinking
Rewiring the Inner Dialogue: How CBT Helps You Break Free from Negative Thinking Have you ever felt like your mind is your own worst...
Brian Feldman
May 16, 20254 min read


Letting Go of the Struggle: How ACT Helps You Move Forward Without Fixing Everything
Letting Go of the Struggle: How ACT Helps You Move Forward Without Fixing Everything What if healing wasn’t about fighting your way out...
Brian Feldman
May 15, 20253 min read


“After Everything I’ve Done…”: The Trap of Just world Fallacy or “Suffering-Reward association”
“After Everything I’ve Done…”: The Trap of Just world Fallacy or “Suffering-Reward association” Do you ever feel like life owes you?...
Brian Feldman
May 14, 20252 min read


“If They’d Just Change…”: Releasing the Fallacy of Change
“If They’d Just Change…”: Releasing the Fallacy of Change “If he really loved me, he’d stop doing that.” “If she cared about this...
Brian Feldman
May 13, 20252 min read


“It’s Not Fair!”: Finding Peace with the Fallacy of Fairness
“It’s Not Fair!”: Finding Peace with the Fallacy of Fairness Have you ever felt deeply hurt or angry when something unjust happened to...
Brian Feldman
May 12, 20253 min read


Control Fallacies: Finding Balance Between Power and Powerlessness
Control Fallacies: Finding Balance Between Power and Powerlessness Do you ever feel like everything is your fault or that you have no...
Brian Feldman
May 11, 20252 min read


When It Feels Like It’s All Your Fault: Understanding Personalization
When It Feels Like It’s All Your Fault: Understanding Personalization Have you ever felt responsible for something that wasn’t entirely...
Brian Feldman
May 10, 20252 min read


More Than a Label: Moving Beyond Harsh Self-Definitions
More Than a Label: Moving Beyond Harsh Self-Definitions Ever catch yourself saying things like, “I’m such an idiot,” “She’s a...
Brian Feldman
May 9, 20252 min read


Should Statements: Rewriting the Rules That Keep You Stuck
Should Statements: Rewriting the Rules That Keep You Stuck “I should exercise more.”“I shouldn’t feel this way.”“I should be over this...
Brian Feldman
May 8, 20252 min read


All or Nothing Thinking: Life Beyond Black and White
All or Nothing Thinking: Life Beyond Black and White Do you ever think in extremes? “I’m a complete failure.” “If I’m not perfect, I’ve...
Brian Feldman
May 7, 20253 min read


When Everything Feels Bigger or Smaller Than It Really Is: Healing Magnification and Minimization
When Everything Feels Bigger or Smaller Than It Really Is: Healing Magnification and Minimization Have you ever found yourself...
Brian Feldman
May 6, 20253 min read


When Good Just Isn’t “Good Enough”: Overcoming Disqualifying the Positive
When Good Just Isn’t “Good Enough”: Overcoming Disqualifying the Positive Have you ever brushed off a compliment by saying, “They’re...
Brian Feldman
May 5, 20253 min read


Reading Minds and Telling the Future: Challenging the “Jumping to Conclusions” Trap
Reading Minds and Telling the Future: Challenging the “Jumping to Conclusions” Trap Has your mind ever raced ahead, filling in the...
Brian Feldman
May 4, 20253 min read


When the Negative Drowns Out the Good: Healing from Mental Filtering
When the Negative Drowns Out the Good: Healing from Mental Filtering Have you ever finished a big project, received mostly positive...
Brian Feldman
May 3, 20253 min read


One Bad Moment Doesn’t Define You: Untangling Overgeneralization
One Bad Moment Doesn’t Define You: Untangling Overgeneralization Have you ever caught yourself saying something like, “I always mess...
Brian Feldman
May 2, 20253 min read


The Trap of Black-and-White Thinking: Finding Balance in the Gray
The Trap of Black-and-White Thinking: Finding Balance in the Gray Have you ever caught yourself saying, “I’m either a success or a...
Brian Feldman
May 1, 20254 min read


Untangling the Mind: Understanding Cognitive Distortions and How They Shape Our Inner World
Untangling the Mind: Understanding Cognitive Distortions and How They Shape Our Inner World Have you ever caught yourself thinking...
Brian Feldman
Apr 30, 20253 min read


When Going "Grey Rock" Protects Your Peace: Managing Toxic Relationships with Compassion for Yourself
When Going "Grey Rock" Protects Your Peace: Managing Toxic Relationships with Compassion for Yourself At some point in life, almost...
Brian Feldman
Apr 29, 20254 min read


Parenting Through Tough Times: Supporting Your Kids Emotionally
Parenting Through Tough Times: Supporting Your Kids Emotionally Parenting comes with beautiful, rewarding moments and also with seasons...
Brian Feldman
Apr 28, 20254 min read


What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session
What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session Reaching out for therapy can feel like a big, brave step and if you're considering it, we...
Brian Feldman
Apr 27, 20254 min read
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